7. Daily Life in the Village
As a
special deal Dad took us to the wall on the small terrace outside the kitchen
and pointed to a round metal cup-like device which had two pipes running out of
it. With an awed voice he explained to us, “We now have water that comes from
Barouk and the water is pure and good for us to drink! We can be very
grateful!”
Water was
important to drink and to use for making tea, coffee and the delicious mulberry
cordial shraab, and of course our
usual cooking and washing needs. To heat the water, we had two options: gas or
electricity. Electricity meant plugs, light bulbs, fuses and wires going all
over the place. For some reason, known only to the experts, the earth wire for
our electrical system was attached to a galvanized pipe leading to our lower
bathroom bath taps.
On one
memorable occasion, Mom had run the hot and cold water for our bath and once Graham
had finished washing, he was taken off to the bedroom to be dried properly and
put into his pyjamas. By the time my turn came around, the water had become
tepid. I got in the bath and put my hand on the hot water tap. As soon as that water
hit the lukewarm water, a strange and unfamiliar feeling raced through my body
pinching the core of me and making me sweat behind my ears. I managed to let go
of the tap and the feeling became less pronounced but still left me with a high
frequency shake. The bath kept filling up and the water became hotter and
hotter. I wanted to turn it off but was reluctant to touch the tap again.
However, it had to be done, so I put my hand on the tap to turn it off. I was
hit by two intensities at this point. Electricity flowing through the
connection I was making with the water and the tap bit me, and, the heat of the
tap burnt my hand and my hand stuck to it. Somehow, I’m not sure how, I managed
to turn the water off. My hand came unstuck and my body felt normal again, and
though the drama was over, my body still felt sore from the burn.
It took me
a while to tell Dad about the incident, but it was before our next bath time.
He didn’t believe me at first, but when he experimented for himself, he had a
similar awakening to the truth of my statement. The earth was soon attached to
some other woebegotten pipe somewhere else. It was only many days later that I
could be induced to take another bath and when I did I never, ever, touched
that tap again. Someone else always had to switch it on and off. If there was
no one around to do that I would not get into the bath. If and when that
happened I learned to wet my hair, face and other parts in such a way that no
one could tell that I hadn’t had a proper bath. I was not going to be wet
behind the ears ever again!
Dad had a
workshop. Often he would go in there, close the door and make arcane noises
relating to what we understood to be of a productive nature, but he nearly
always emerged serene. For ages I really wanted to discover some of the rituals
and exercises which he applied in that room of his.
One day,
when I felt I was old and wise enough, and Dad was away for some length of
time, I was drawn into his workshop as if by some unseen hand. What I
discovered was a whole world of tools, devices and possibilities. The room had
a bench, a vice, saws, hammers, chisels, mallets, screwdrivers and everything
that any creative dreamer would need to build up to his castles in the air. I
was hooked.
I asked Dad
if I could come in when he working sometime, “I just want to watch!” I said casually.
He eventually succumbed to my pleas. I carefully observed how he used the
soldering iron and then took my chance when he was away to produce a soldered
shape representing a sailboat which actually stuck together. I hid it somewhere
in the workshop.
One day he
found my artifact. When he accosted me he expressed frustration at my
disobedience but it was mixed with an attitude of wonder at what I had managed
to produce by myself. That piece of work hung on his office wall for quite a
few years.
As a family, we ate some meals on our
own, but many main meals were communal affairs with all students and staff
eating together. We learned to love Lebanese cuisine. Olive oil is essential in
the Lebanese kitchen, and so are olives. The LBI kitchen store had large
ceramic jars of olives in brine. One was for green olives and the other for
black olives. Most meal times would include a bowl of olives to enhance the
food. Now and then I would steal a handful, when no-one was looking.
Every village has its groves of
olives, painstakingly terraced, sometimes over centuries. As children, we knew
very well that an olive couldn’t be eaten straight from the tree. It is bitter,
and needs processing. In autumn, when it was olive harvest time, families went
down to their olive groves and laid large cloths on the ground under one tree
after another, so that falling olives could be collected. We kids helped to
knock down the olives, although the men were really in charge of the whole
process. After harvesting many trees, the lunch ritual occurred. By early
afternoon, the collected green olives were put in bags hanging over the donkeys
and taken home to put in alum and salt water to cure properly. All the olives I
saw and ate in various homes had been cracked open a bit with a stone – perhaps
to allow the curing to go deeper – and then put in big barrels (like brandy
kegs) with steel bands to cure for as long as necessary. The alum and brine had
to be changed regularly. Black olives were not so plentiful.
The best olives were taken in bags by
donkey down the cobbled pipe-track to the next village, Ainab, to be stone
ground in the big press. The resulting oil was poured into five, or ten-liter
tin containers, and either taken back to our village or sold.
Gradually, everyone wended their way
back home and began preparations for the evening meal. Cooking fires were set
to cook meat or prepare vegetable stews. Meal times were the centre of so much village
life and reflected their overwhelming hospitality and love of the land. I was
occasionally included in the family when these things happened. As evening came
on, the sleeping mats were brought out with various kinds of sewed up duvets
laid out ready for sleeping after washing. This was the daily routine on dry
evenings, with the focus varying according to the season and the kind of
harvest expected.
There was other produce to be harvested and prepared
in one way or another. One of my favourite fruits was the fig.
Eaten ripe and fresh with a large bowl of yoghurt, they make the best breakfast
in the world. If a family had enough fig trees, they would break open the ripe
figs and put them in the sun to dry. Mediterranean summers are hot and dry and
perfect for preserving fruit in this way. Dried figs extended the shelf life of
the fruit and, if sold, supplemented the family’s income. They could then be
eaten in winter when fruit was scarce, or made into a very popular stiff and
exquisitely tasty jam. The same thing happened with apricots for apricot jam
making. Graham once ate the kernels of some green apricots stones and I remember
seeing him on the swing with the round seat, holding on to the rope with his legs
crossed underneath, in something of a daze. Later it was realized that he had
just been on his first “trip” given him by the raw pips. His walk was unsteady
and gave us all a good laugh. I don’t think any of us realized that the cyanide in apricot kernels
could be extremely toxic.
Almonds were also dried out and the
nuts were used in all kinds of sweets. Certain kinds of pine trees, the stone
pine, would have pinecones that were eagerly harvested as soon as they fell to
the ground. One such grove was just up the steps from the LBI. Once enough
pinecones had been collected, the whole family and some friends gathered around
a cut tree trunk. Some of us took the seeds out of the cones with our fingers
and a stick. These seeds were passed on in a sort of assembly line to others
who cracked them open to reveal the kernel. Finally the brown sheath would be
removed and the nut was popped into a container. We processed thousands. The
white pine nuts were used to make kibbi and
other Lebanese meals. The taste of fried hubub
sanawbar will always make my taste buds sing.
Most of the villagers were involved
in these activities in different ways. Older people were usually allowed to sit
and be involved as they were able since they had played their part for so long.
Tourists did not flock to Lebanon for
the game parks, but I discovered many captivating creatures. For example, our
neighbors had a large terraced garden, which bordered on our property. I became
fascinated with their bees and the beehives. Once I was fascinated for a little
too long. There were some wasps that tried to attack the hive while I was
watching. The usual steady arrival and departure of the bees from the hive was
interrupted for a while as the “scout” bees fought with the intruders and finally
dispatched them and dropped their bodies outside the hive like so much rubbish.
While I applauded their victory, it
seemed that I too was posing something of a threat for the bees, since I was in
some of their flight paths. All at once the bees started swarming around me,
getting into my hair and stinging me. I was shocked and frightened but managed
to respond by running away and swatting the bees out of my hair. When I
explained what I had done to mom she felt the bumps, put some ointment on to
sooth the bites and I went to bed stinging a bit, but after a good sleep, got
on with my life having learned a couple of important lessons. It could well be
that this affected me more than I knew, as the next time I was stung, many
years later, I had an allergic reaction.
In spring,
there were many kinds of bumblebees that went buzzing around from flower to
flower. There was one particular kind with a shiny carapace, which frequented
thistles that had sharp leaves and a purple tuft of stamens. When we were quick
enough, it was possible to catch one of these bumblebees, render it helpless
and tie a piece of cotton under the wings and round its body in such a way that
it could fly. It would then be possible to let it fly off and yet control it by
holding on to the long end of the cotton, like a small living kite. On one
occasion we managed to get four of us to make each of our insects to fly in
formation towards the river near the butchery. We felt like we had reached the
pinnacle of bumblebee fame.
The sound
of a donkey’s bray takes me straight back to our village. Some of the villagers
had their own donkeys and used them for transporting goods. Sometimes older
people rode them to get to difficult places. Mom once talked to me about
donkeys after I had said some complementary things about them. I could bray
like a donkey and loved their characters. She warned me to never pull a
donkey’s tail. I did not want to simply take her word for it, so the next time
I saw a donkey browsing near an old broken-down house, I went behind it and
pulled its tail. It kicked me so hard in the chest that I landed a couple of
meters away. Mother was right and I learned another lesson, which made me a
little wiser than I had been. I had marks, for a short while, to show how wise
I had become.
Later on, I
was in Ain-Anoub and a young boy was offering rides on his donkey, “twice round
a playground for only 50 piastres.” I paid my money, but didn’t enjoy the first
circuit so suggested he give me 25 piastres back for only going once. The owner
of the donkey may have been young, but like many Lebanese, he knew how to
strike a deal and was unwilling to refund me half the fare. I did not want to
waste the money, so I had to go around again to get my money’s worth! Somebody
once told me a joke about a foreigner who came to Lebanon to teach mathematics
at primary level. He asked his class, “What is 1 plus 1?” There was silence,
until a young boys asked, “Am I buying, or selling?” This illustrates something
of the ancient Phoenician culture passed down through the generations.
The family next door had a
double-story house. The Farajallah’s rented the upstairs part of
their home to some students at MECAS (Middle East Centre for Arabic Studies). At
some point, this centre, situated further up the hill, became known locally as
the ‘spy school’ as a Lebanese politician alleged that many of its graduates
worked for the C.I.A. or Britiain’s Foreign Office. Whether true or not, the
students were learning Arabic language and culture and did not seem to mix much
with the local villagers, and I rarely saw them. I think I visited their
apartment once, and all I remember is that it was quite grand.
My friend
Antoine, the butcher’s son, dislocated his arm and the family decided to take
him down to Ain-Anoub to the bonesetter by car. The whole family had to accompany
him, and I joined them. We were in the house while Antoine went to be with the
bonesetter in a side room. The bonesetter soaped his arm in warm water and
tried to manipulate it back into place with my friend writhing and yelling in
agony and getting into a real lather. He worked on it for at least an hour, but
did not get it right and Antoine was in paroxysms the whole time. Finally, the
whole affair was stopped, and we all went back to Shemlan in the car. This
action prevented the family from reacting in ways they would later regret. I
sensed, with empathy, they really wanted to beat up the bonesetter with all
their pent-up energy. He was a fortunate man!
It was
decided that Brenda and I should go to a school in Souk-el-Gharb, the next town along towards Aley, for a few terms. Learning how to write and read the Arabic alphabet and numbers seemed
to be the aim of the exercise. I was 5 and Brenda was 4 and we had blue
dresses with large white collars. Dad had a bike on which he took me, but I
think Brenda got a ride with another family. He placed me on the crossbar in
front. Because he had knock-knees he found it awkward to peddle without lifting
me off the crossbar now and again. It must have produced quite a comical
spectacle to those watching us go by!
Although
the ride was only about 3 km, the tire had to be pumped up at least once,
sometimes more, before he dropped me off at school. I remember complaints from
him about pumping tires when I was not with him. Fixing the tires permanently
seemed like a last resort. O the fun of pumping! Later the bike became mine but
it was fixed in first gear so I could never go too fast. The wheels would
wobble anyway if I exceeded the limit set by the beginning of “wheel wobble.”
Later, we bought a car – a VW
Beetle, the colour and characteristics of which will be argued by Graham and
Howard until they depart this mortal coil. Me, I just remember it as a VW
Beetle! Later on, when I was older and went to school in Beirut, I went with
George Hitti in his taxi, filled with smoking men, down to Beirut on Monday
mornings and returned with him and the smoking men to our Shemlan home. He
dropped me at the front gate of the LBI. I spent the weeknights with one of the
mission aunties in Beirut.
Dad once
took a group of us on a hiking trip towards Ainaab. We veered off the road and
up a small river bed coming across some Bee orchids growing out of a crack in a
rock in the middle of the stream. We marveled at such exquisite beauty and
variety, standing around it for a while. The lower part of the orchid looks
like a female bee; the male bees are thus attracted and pollinate the flower. A
few weeks later a visitor wanted to see the Bee orchids because he did not believe
they existed in Lebanon. Other people were not able to accompany him, but I
volunteered. He was skeptical of my ability to find the location, as were some
of the members of my very own family. Well, the upshot was that I took him
straight to the location and there were the Bee orchids in all their glory. He
was left somewhat surprised by their existence and even more amazed that I was
able to go straight to them without hesitation. I loved wandering in the
mountains behind the village and came to know the countryside like the back of
my hand.
Most interesting Brian
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